I think you underestimate a soldier's/sailor's/airman's value of his/her family. We know where they live.
I do wonder how so much shit can go unanswered before the fan turns on. It is somewhat of a Catch-22. If the old men TRY to organize, they'll be labeled as domestic terrorists or a right wing militia. A bunch of men are still locked up for protesting a stolen election. Drumming up bogus charge after charge against a former president obviously overstepping authority. SOMETHING has to give and bodies need to DESERVEDLY drop to save this country. But who or how?
I have heard that story before. As much as I would like to believe law enforcement and military personnel would collectively mutiny and refuse to follow orders, I don't believe that would happen. It's not impossible, but unlikely.
When has that happened on a huge scale? In the French Revolution, Bolshevik revolution, and the Cuban revolution, an established military and police joined the civilian insurrection. The rise of fascism took a different path. The militaries of Spain, Germany and Italy simply obeyed the new political parties in power. Why did they do that? Because they believed the hype that their leaders were acting in the best interests of their country. At the time, that appeared to be true. After Stalin killed an estimated 11 million of his own people, why did the Soviet military not turn on him?
Coups happen all the time in Africa, but those are most often long-standing tribal conflicts. They fight over economic power, not political philosophies. How people behave in times of political upheaval is not as black and white as many think it is. There are a lot of factors. You see this up close and personal when you work in Foreign Service. Anywhere there are humans, there is some degree of chaos.
Government officials and military personnel take an oath to defend the Constitution. But they are not empowered to interpret it. There's the rub. You make a good point about resistors getting jailed or unfairly prosecuted. Most revolutions take many years to fester. But the tipping point only happens when a majority are literally eating dirt and see no better alternative other than revolt. That is not going to happen in the US.
I don't want to branch off into a thread about Trump, but I do wonder if the left has finally shit the bed. If he is convicted he will transition from being a populist conservative agent of change to becoming a martyr. That fire will be very difficult for the left to put out. Personally, if I were pulling those strings from the liberal side, I would make sure he is acquitted.
Disagreeing with the politics of the day is nothing new. It angers and frustrates us. But anybody who says they are willing to die for the cause is either a liar or a fool. Most of them can't explain what their cause is. Liberals are no exception. Rebels without a clue, as Tom Petty once sang.
The infuriating liberalism we are witnessing now will pass. It always does. The pendulum predictably swings the other way. But at the same time, nothing ever stays the same. The culture changes, and we long for the good old days and simpler times. That is the human condition: birth, learning, emotion, aspiration, morality, conflict, and death.