I concur.
Max pressure for the 10mm is 37,500psi. (More than 357 or 44 Magnum)
If a load of a particular powder is making maximum velocity, it is also making maximum pressure. Ergo, if you are getting 250fps more than the published max load, it is logical to assume you are generating pressure in excess of the SAAMI max of 37,500psi.
The max load for 800X with the 155 XTP in the Hodgdon database is 9.8gr which produces 1350 fps at 30,000 psi. It is the only load listed that does not exceed 30,000psi. This is curious as all the other loads are in the neighborhood of 35,000psi. As bkbrno points out, this is a red flag. Loaded hotter than this tells me this powder does quirky things pressure wise if the charge weight is increased beyond 9.8.
There is no way to accurately determine the pressure of ones handloads unless you have a lab test them in a pressure barrel with a piezo transducer to plot the pressure curve. I think that if these loads were so tested, it would scare you.
The fastest load listed for the 155 XTP is with AA#9 at 1414fps and well below max pressure. This is right up there with lower rung 41 Magnum loads. I would feel much more comfortable using that. And I doubt the hogs will complain.
Fun fact:
Years ago, I shot with a guy in High Power who loaded his ammo "hot". Always pushing the envelope kind of guy. He wasn't getting pressure signs either. No pierced primers, no overly flattened primers and no sooty primers. On more than one occasion, he had a lug break off of his AR15 bolt. It was always one of the lugs next to the extractor. Those two lugs bear an asymmetrical load because the extractor occupies the space of a lug. So two lugs are bearing the load normally borne by three.
Now AR bolts are normally good for 10K+rounds. In High Power, we always use a new bolt with a new barrel, so his bolts never had more than 5K rounds on them because barrel life was usually 4-5K rounds. That's when you start dropping points at 600, the barrel is still good for short ranges, but most shooters replace the barrel and sell or give it to a new shooter than can get some more mileage out of it.
There was an article some time back where one of the gun magazines had some handloads pressure tested by H.P. White labs. Max pressure for the caliber was 50,000psi. The test results came back showing the pressure was 60,000psi. This is approaching "Blue Pill" territory, and he was happily shooting this load on a regular basis.
The morale of the story is, that pressures beyond published maximums may not cause the gun to fail right away, but after a continual diet of ammo loaded too hot, something eventually has to give.